I really hadn't meant to yell at them. But

题目内容：

I really hadn't meant to yell at them. But that grey afternoon saw it just as my son and daughter were making a terrible mess on the floor in the kitchen.

With a tiresome report to write, I felt bothered at my desk. Suddenly, it occurred to me that my kids were at fault. A voice inside me insisted that I do something quickly.

“OK, you two here, but what an awful thing you are attempting!” shouting angrily, I made for them, while it became evident that the boy wanted no part of me. “Get away from us!” he shouted back, there being expression of support from his sister.

All of a sudden, I found the fault in myself. Quickly I shaped my hands into pincers（螃蟹螯;钳子）and crawled towards them, “Crabby（似螃蟹的）Daddy is here. Ha, Ha, Ha, he likes to yell at children, and then eat them!” My son continued to keep me away, but now he was laughing and crying at the same time. My mission to repair the damage caused by my yelling seemed to work well. Still, I regretted not having controlled myself first in a right way that my children could do after.

Need I let them know how badly they were acting by blaming? This is a lesson that serves myself. It only shows just how to get rid of something（ill-feelings, responsibility）by blaming others. It's not my “best self”.

We have to search for our “best self” when with our children. They don't need perfect parents, but they do need parents who are always trying to get better. Here, I'm reminded of the words of a great thinker, “When a man lives with God, his voice shall be as sweet as the murmur of the brook…” Then, in our lifetime, couldn't we always speak to our kids in such a sweet voice since most of us consider them as the most precious in the world? And before we reach this level, what should we do when we come across various difficult cases with our children?

小题1:The author couldn't help yelling at his kids this time probably because___________.

A．the weather was so unpleasant

B．a Daddy has his right to do so

C．the kids didn't ask him to join them

D．he was tired of his boring work小题2:Which of the following made the author aware of his fault?

A．No obvious reason.

B．The children’s reaction.

C．His self-control.

D．The mess made by the children.小题3:According to the passage the author will __________in another similar situation.

A．play a crab again like this time

B．apologize to kids in a sincere way

C．avoid blaming kids in a hurry

D．beat them up about such things小题4:What will the writer go on to write about in the next paragraph(s)?

A．How to behave ourselves properly when kids are at fault.

B．How to blame our children in a more interesting way.

C．How to deal with the terrible mess made by our kids.

D．How to persuade children to do what they are told to.

最佳答案：

小题1:D

小题2:B

小题3:C

小题4:A

答案解析：

作者因为工作的原因对孩子发火，但是孩子的反应让作者意识到他错了。从自己的经历得出一个教训，对待犯错的孩子不要去匆忙的责备他们。

小题1:细节题：从第二段的句子：With a tiresome report to write, I felt bothered at my desk. Suddenly, it occurred to me that my kids were at fault. 可知作者生气是因为工作的原因。选D

小题2:细节题。结合文章中的“Get away from us!” he shouted back, there being an expression of support from his sister.All of a sudden, I found the fault in myself. 可知孩子的反应让作者意识到他错了，答案B。

小题3:细节题。结合文章中的I regretted not having controlled myself first in a right way. 可知作者下次遇到相似的情形不会匆忙的责备孩子，答案C。

小题4:推断题。文章最后提出了一个问题what should we do when we come across various difficult cases with our children?即如何对待犯错的孩子?由此可知下文应对此问题作出回答，选A

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